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The Staff at aPrivateTalk.com
An Old Book Revisited
Stop driving yourself crazy by holding onto irrational beliefs. From Don’t Believe it for a Minute by Lazarus, Ph.D. and Fay, MD
These are Truths Some People Take a Long Time to Believe!
Recreation is NOT a Waste of Time – It’s Critical for Balance in Your Life
You're NOT Better Off When You Can Control Other People
It's NOT Healthy to "Blow Off Steam" at the Expense of Others
Family and Friends Don’t Have to Love You No Matter How You Act
Kindness Will NOT Overcome Unkindness – Don’t be a Victim
Sometimes it is Needed to Say Things That Might Hurt Others' Feelings
Perfection Should NOT Be Your Goal – It Slows Down Your Personal Growth
Don’t be afraid to say YES, you always retain the option to change your mind
Ultimatums do NOT Settle Disputes – They Increase Distance in Intimacy
Total Honesty is NOT always the Best Policy – and Timing is Important Too
Inconsiderate Relatives and Friends do NOT Deserve the Silent Treatment
You Can NOT Achieve "Anything You Set Your Mind To"
If You Want Something Done Right, Do It Yourself -does NOT promote team work
When Things Go Wrong, do NOT Look for Someone to Blame
Punishment is NOT Good Discipline – It Requires Education
Do NOT Keep Your Feelings to Yourself – Or You’ll Feel Even More Alone
First Impressions do NOT Tell You What People Are Really Like
Your Parents' Approval is NOT Most Important – Your Approval Is
Success and Money do NOT Lead to Happiness – Relationships Do
Once a Victim, Always a Victim Thinking Can be Changed
Admire Your Own Qualities to Show Self Love To Others and Yourself
Criticism is NOT a Good Way to Correct People's Mistakes
Be Selfish; Putting Others First Conveys You are Worth-Less
Your Spouse Won’t Always Love Your Parents and Family
We All Do NOT do Our Best When We Have High Expectations
It is NOT Important to Be Liked By Everyone
Problems do NOT Go Away If You Ignore Them
If You Play, You do NOT Have to Always Play to Win
Do NOT Have Definite Rules for Yourself and Others
Someone Who Truly Loves You Does NOT Know What You Need
Insults Are NOT Bound to Be Upsetting – Only When You Believe Them
Being Hard on Yourself is NOT Good for You
An Apology Does NOT Always Wipe the Slate Clean
To Change You do NOT Need to Understand the Reasons for Your Behavior
Do NOT Cover Your Mistakes; The Important Thing is to Grow by Them
You Won't Go Right If You Follow Your Gut Feelings – They are Often Wrong
Life is NOT Always Fair – Make it The Best That You Can
Happily Married People Do Have Sexual Feelings for Others at Times
Be Flexible - Your Word is NOT Your Bond and Sometimes Needs to Change
Suffering and Hard Work do NOT Build Character
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